The week everybody else is free is the week I work hardest
Posted as i_work_through_february
- Looking for
- somebody whose year runs on the opposite schedule to everybody here
- Experience
- Six years, two dynamics, both strained by the same fortnight.
- Around
- Barra, Rio de Janeiro
I work in hotels. From the middle of January to the end of February I do not have a day off, I do not have an evening, and I sleep in shifts. Then in June, when this city goes quiet and everybody I know is complaining about the rain, I have more free time than anybody.
Thirty eight, out in Barra, submissive, six years. Both of my dynamics hit the same wall. Somebody who is free in February and unavailable in June is exactly the wrong shape for me, and that is most of the people here.
So I am posting for the mirror image. Somebody whose summer is busy and whose winter is empty. Teachers, people who work the season, anybody with a job that peaks when mine does not.
What I want inside it is structure that survives a bad month. Rules I keep whether or not we have seen each other. Something I do every day and report on. My one long dynamic worked because she gave me things to do rather than times to be somewhere, and by the end of that February I was still hers even though we had barely spoken.
Not looking for anybody who will take the silence personally. Not looking for a person who wants to be taken to anything, ever, because I will be working at it. Not looking for anything at all between the middle of January and the first week of March.