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Dominants the centre, Rio de Janeiro

I run a business with my brothers and the name is on the door

Posted as the_family_name

Looking for
a submissive who understands why none of this can ever be visible
Experience
Eighteen years, two dynamics, both completely invisible.
Around
the centre, Rio de Janeiro

The business has been in the family since my grandfather and there are four of us in it and my surname is the first thing anybody in our trade thinks of. That is the whole reason for everything careful in this post.

Forty four, working near the centre, dominant, eighteen years. Two long dynamics, one of six years and one of four, and in both cases almost nobody knew, which suited both women perfectly well and would not suit everybody.

What discretion means here: no photographs of me anywhere, nothing written that names me or the company, nothing that would ever get back to a customer or a supplier or one of my brothers. I will not attend anything, ever. I do not want to meet your friends and I will not be introducing you to mine.

What I offer inside that is a great deal. I am attentive, I plan, I remember things, and I have never in eighteen years disappeared on anybody. What I want is a long structured dynamic. Service, protocol, a submissive who is self sufficient and does not need me to run their life. Correction is verbal. I am not much interested in impact and I do not own any of the equipment people assume I do.

Not looking for anybody who wants to be seen with me. Not looking for a person who will treat the caution as a puzzle. Not looking for somebody in the same trade, which in this city is a real risk and not a theoretical one.

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