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Dominants the south zone, Rio de Janeiro

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Posted as write_me_something_long

Looking for
a submissive who can write and enjoys being written to
Experience
Twenty four years leading, three dynamics, all correspondence heavy.
Around
the south zone, Rio de Janeiro

I have received one hundred and forty messages this year and I would guess that a hundred and twenty of them were under twenty words. I do not think those people are rude. I think we want completely different things and the length of the first message says so faster than anything else.

Fifty five, south zone, dominant, twenty four years. Every arrangement I have kept has run on writing. Instructions written out properly. Replies written back. A record we both keep and both reread. If that sounds like homework then we would waste each other's time and you should stop here, with no hard feelings.

What I want is somebody who finds precision satisfying. Protocol, standards, a submissive who reports in full and does not need chasing. I care considerably more about how you write to me than about anything else, and I will not be asking for a photograph in the first month or the second.

I am also aware that this city runs on talking rather than writing, and that I am a slightly odd fit for it. I have found three people in twenty four years and all three lasted years, so I am content to be patient.

Retired from one career, working at another, living alone near the water. Not looking for anybody who wants to move quickly. Not looking for a person who will write beautifully for a fortnight and then send me single lines. Not looking for a scene, ever.

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