Everybody here complains about the cold. Winter is my good half
Posted as heat_bad_season
- Looking for
- a long dynamic with somebody who plans and does not panic in December
- Experience
- Six years, three dynamics, one of them across four summers.
- Around
- the inner west, Sydney
Most people on this board complain about the cold. Winter is my good season. I have a condition where heat is the trigger, and from about the middle of November until March I am useful for roughly two hours a day and horizontal for a lot of the rest.
Thirty seven, the inner west, submissive, six years in. Right now, in May, I am the best version of myself, which is exactly why I am posting now instead of waiting for a better moment.
What that means for anybody who writes to me. From about December our arrangement gets smaller: nothing long, nothing physically demanding, and nothing at all in a room without air conditioning, which rules out most rentals in this city including mine. It does not stop. It changes shape. The last person I was with found that far easier than she expected once she had seen it happen once.
What I want is a long dynamic with somebody who plans. Structure, standing rules, contact that does not depend on how I am feeling that day. I am extremely reliable at the things I can do and I will tell you plainly about the things I cannot.
Not looking for anybody who wants to discuss my health in the first conversation. Not looking for somebody who will read a summer of small arrangements as the thing being over. Not looking to explain what the condition is before we have met, which is now a question I decline as a matter of policy.