Fifty five, came to this country at thirty five, starting this now
Posted as formal_and_late
- Looking for
- a dominant woman who runs things properly and without theatre
- Experience
- None whatsoever. Forty years of knowing and no action taken.
- Around
- North York, Toronto
I will write this the way I write everything, which I am told is too formal for the internet. I came to this country when I was thirty five. I raised a family, I worked, my marriage ended four years ago after a long decline that had nothing at all to do with the subject of this post, and my children are adults with homes of their own.
Fifty five, North York. In all of that time I have never acted on any of this. I have known since I was young. In the place I grew up there was no word for it that was not an insult, and by the time I had both the words and the freedom I had a wife, two children and a mortgage.
So I am beginning at fifty five, which I understand is unusual, and I am not going to perform a confidence that I do not have.
What I would like is a dominant woman, older or near my own age, who runs things properly and without theatre. I would like to be told what is expected of me and then held to it. I am extremely good at being held to things. Thirty years of work will do that to a man.
I can host. I live alone. I drive, and North York is not far from anywhere. Not looking for anybody who wants to hear about my marriage. Not looking for a woman half my age. Not looking to be told gently that it is never too late, because I am aware, and it is also quite late.