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Dominants the 905, Toronto

Come out on the Friday, go home on the Sunday, twice a month

Posted as two_days_not_hours

Looking for
one submissive who can actually get here and stay
Experience
Twenty six years, and a strong preference for length over frequency.
Around
the 905, Toronto

Drive out on the Friday, go home on the Sunday. That is the shape of what I want and it rules out most people, which I have made my peace with.

Fifty five, the 905, dominant, twenty six years in. I have a quiet house at the end of a long driveway with no neighbours in sight of the windows. What that makes possible is not what people assume. It is not volume. It is time. Two days with nowhere to be produces something that three hours on a weeknight cannot get near, and once you have had it the weeknight version starts to feel like a sample.

Twice a month is what I have in mind. Between visits I like a structure that keeps running, but I am not going to pretend that the visits are not the point of it.

I am looking for one submissive, thirty five or over, who can genuinely get here and who understands that a whole weekend in somebody else's house is a larger commitment than an evening. It is also, for a lot of people, the first time they have properly rested in years.

I cook. I am told I am very calm. I am a great deal stricter than I look and people are usually surprised by that within the first hour. Not looking for anybody who has to be back for something on the Saturday. Not looking for a first visit that is a whole weekend, because that would be reckless for both of us. Not looking for anybody without a way of getting out here.

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