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Couples the east, Amsterdam

Both contracts end in fourteen months and we are posting anyway

Posted as fourteen_months_left

Looking for
a dominant woman who is willing to agree to a finish date
Experience
Four years together, two years each in this, no meetings yet.
Around
the east, Amsterdam

Both of our contracts finish in fourteen months and neither will be renewed. We will almost certainly leave the country. We are posting anyway, and putting it in the first line, because the alternative is spending our last year here being careful about nothing.

Thirty and thirty two, together four years, in the east, arrived two years ago and in love with the place in the way only people who are leaving get to be.

What we want is honest and limited. One person, something regular across the time we have, understood by everybody as having an ending. We are both submissive, we are looking for a dominant woman, and we would want her to know exactly what she was agreeing to.

We know how this reads. We have seen the posts from people worn out by the churn here and we think they are right and we are part of the problem. What we would say is that fourteen months is longer than most things on this board last, and we would rather do it properly and finish it properly than pretend to a permanence we do not have.

Not looking for anybody who says the end date does not matter, because it will. Not looking to be talked into believing we might stay. Not looking for a person who wants only one of us, since we tried that and it was quietly corrosive.

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