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Switches the west, Amsterdam

Nine hours a day on a bike, so my body wants something else now

Posted as outside_all_weather

Looking for
precision and stillness rather than anything that asks for stamina
Experience
Three years, both directions, mostly short.
Around
the west, Amsterdam

I am outdoors for nine hours a day on a bicycle in whatever the weather decides, and by the time I get home a great deal has already happened to my body. That has changed what I want from this more than anything else has.

Twenty six, switch, in the west, three years in, working as a courier while I finish something part time. When I started I wanted intensity and I chased it and I got some. Now I want the reverse. Precision. Stillness. Somebody who can make an hour feel enormous without asking anything of my legs. On the other side, when I am leading, I am slow and quiet and I like taking a long time over something small.

I mention it because most posts here come from people with desk jobs.

I share a flat, I cannot host, I have almost no money and everything I suggest will be free.

Not looking for anybody who wants to meet at six on a weekday, because at six I am still working and I smell like weather. Not looking to be somebody's young experiment. Not looking for a person who thinks a courier is a temporary personality, which it is, but not in the way they mean it.

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