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Submissives Neukölln, Berlin

Cabin crew, Berlin based, submissive, home eleven days a month

Posted as airport_hours

Looking for
someone who can hold a dynamic across a lot of absence
Experience
Nine years, two dynamics, both survived the schedule.
Around
Neukölln, Berlin

I am home about eleven days a month and never the same eleven. That is the fact which decides whether anything works, so it goes first, before anything about what I like.

Thirty six, based in Berlin, cabin crew for eleven years and submissive for nine. Two proper dynamics, both of which worked because the person leading was good at holding something across distance rather than needing me in the room.

What that looks like: rules that travel. Things I have to do in a hotel at the wrong hour. Reporting in when I land, which sounds small and is the thing that has kept me tethered on some very grim nights in the middle of nowhere. Then, when I am home, proper time, planned ahead, because my roster comes out three weeks in advance and I can tell you exactly when I am free.

I am not fragile about the job, I am practical about it. I sleep badly, I eat at the wrong times, and I get the day of the week off a screen. I like structure, service, and being under an authority that does not evaporate when I am airborne. Physically, moderate, and nothing visible in uniform, which rules out more than you would think.

I do not want to be told the job is a problem. It is my career and it is staying. I do not want somebody who reads a two week silence as coldness after I have explained the roster. And I cannot get anybody cheap flights, which I am asked about constantly.

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