In Berlin for one year only, sub, sublet and honest about it
Posted as zwischenmiete
- Looking for
- something good and finite rather than something pretend permanent
- Experience
- Six years in Lisbon, none of it here yet.
- Around
- Neukölln, Berlin
I live in a flat that is not mine, in a city I will leave next June, and I have stopped treating that as a problem to hide. It is the truth and it belongs in the first line.
Portuguese, thirty one, here on a contract that ends in the summer. Six years of experience at home and none here, which means I know what I like and I have no idea how anything works in this country. Apparently everything is booked three weeks ahead. I am adjusting.
Submissive, and specifically I like being under someone's authority in ordinary situations rather than only in a scene. Cooking to instruction. Being told what to wear to work. The parts people find boring. I also like impact, at a level best described as more than I look like I would want. My German is bad and improving, my English is better, and I will understand a firm sentence and miss a sarcastic one, so please be the first kind.
What I want is something honest and time limited: eight or nine months of something real, which both people know has an end date. That is not less serious. It may be more serious, because nobody is pretending.
I do not want to be talked out of leaving. I do not want someone who needs a partner rather than me specifically. And I do not want to spend my last year here messaging a person who never suggests a day.