Sixty three, Berlin, submissive, and I still write letters
Posted as paper_and_pen
- Looking for
- a dominant woman who values correspondence as much as contact
- Experience
- Twenty five years, one arrangement that ran for nineteen.
- Around
- Prenzlauer Berg, Berlin
I served one woman for nineteen years. It ended five years ago when she moved abroad, amicably and with a very long letter, and I did not look for anybody afterwards because I did not want to. That has changed this year.
Sixty three, retired from a technical profession, Berlin, in reasonable health and expecting to be tiresome about it if I stop being.
What I offer is old fashioned and I know it. Service, formality, correspondence. I wrote to her weekly for nineteen years, by hand, and it was the spine of the whole thing. If that sounds like a chore, we would be a poor match, and I would rather establish it now than be disappointed at length.
Physically I am limited. My knees do not kneel for long, my shoulders object to being held in one position, and I take a medication that bruises me more easily than before. None of that stops discipline being real. It only means it needs some thought.
I am not looking for a companion, a nurse or a lodger. I have friends, a flat and a routine. I am looking for an authority to place myself under, on terms we would take some time agreeing. I am content to wait a long while for the right person. I waited five years by accident and I could manage another two on purpose. That is meant to be reassuring rather than sad.