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Dominants the edge of Friedrichshain, Berlin

Berlin dominant, and yes I have read your post already

Posted as plattenbau_radio

Looking for
someone who can answer a question with an answer
Experience
Fifteen years leading, three long dynamics, one still a friend.
Around
the edge of Friedrichshain, Berlin

Half the posts on this board say ask me anything and then answer the question about limits with the words open minded. Open minded is not a limit. It is a way of making the other person do your thinking.

So, mine, since I am asking for yours. I lead. I am not interested in owning anyone's whole life and I do not want a title. I like protocol that has a purpose and I dislike protocol that exists to be photographed. I do rope, mostly for restraint rather than for shape. I do not do degradation about work, family or money, and I do not do anything medical at all.

Forty one, Berlin, engineer, dull hours and quite a lot of them. I have led three long dynamics and one of those people still calls me on my birthday, which is the only reference I would offer.

What I want is somebody who will write four sentences about what they actually want, not a list copied from an article. If you have never done any of it, say so, it is a fine answer and I have started people before.

What I do not want is anyone who needs me to make them feel like a person, because that is not something a stranger can do for you. Also no rushing. First messages, then a phone call, then a coffee somewhere loud. Nothing happens at a first meeting and I will say so again when we are at it.

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