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Submissives Kreuzberg, Berlin

Berlin, sub, my week is nights so read that first

Posted as spree_fog

Looking for
someone whose free time is not Friday and Saturday evening
Experience
Four years, two short dynamics, one that lasted eighteen months.
Around
Kreuzberg, Berlin

I cook for a living, which means my week runs Tuesday to Saturday and ends somewhere past midnight. Every dynamic I have had died on that fact rather than on anything interesting, so I am putting it in the first line this time instead of the fourth message.

Berlin, twenty nine, submissive and fairly plain about it. What I want is a regular arrangement with one person: a standing evening, some structure between times, someone who is still there in six months. I am not looking for intensity. Intensity is easy to find here and it does not survive a rota.

Things I like: being given jobs, being corrected without a fuss, kneeling and being ignored for a while, having rules about sleep and food because I am bad at both. Things I do not want: impact beyond a light level, humiliation about my body or my work, anything that gets filmed, anyone who calls me a good boy in the first message.

I am direct about health and testing and expect the same back, and I will ask about other partners early because I would rather know than guess.

Not interested in being someone's third priority. Not interested in a dominant who wants to talk about protocol for six weeks and never suggest a coffee. If you are reading this on a Sunday afternoon and Sunday afternoon is also your free time, we might actually be able to make a calendar work, and that is more than most people I have met here managed.

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