Two of us, Berlin, and yes we have an allotment
Posted as sunday_allotment
- Looking for
- another couple or a single person for slow ordinary friendship
- Experience
- Together twenty one years, kinky for about half of it.
- Around
- Friedrichshain, Berlin
We have an allotment, a shed, a very old plum tree and an arrangement in which she is in charge. Those things are all part of the same life and it took us years to stop finding that funny.
Both mid forties, together twenty one years, out at the eastern edge of the city. She leads, he follows, and it is domestic rather than dramatic: how the day is organised, who decides what, small rules that have been in place so long we forget to mention them to each other.
We are looking for people to know. A couple, or a single person of any gender, in something similar, who would like to spend an afternoon not explaining themselves. We would feed you. He cooks, under instruction.
We are not looking for play with other people. We tried the idea on paper twice and both times realised we did not actually want it, and we would rather write that down than let somebody hope. This city is a strange one for all this. It has the loudest reputation in Europe and we have spent twenty years in a quiet corner of it being kinky on our own, which seems a waste.
We would meet somewhere public first, obviously. We are dull in a way we are rather proud of: no drama, no crises, in bed early. If that sounds appealing rather than depressing, we would like to hear from you.