Three years here, isolated in every sense, would like company
Posted as three_years_here
- Looking for
- anyone in this city who is in this at all
- Experience
- Together eleven years, kinky since before we met each other.
- Around
- Kreuzberg, Berlin
We are going to lower our standards in public and admit that our main criterion is that you turn up. We arrived three years ago and we know nobody. If you are anywhere in this city and you are in this in any form, we would like to hear from you.
Both in our thirties, together eleven years, living in two rooms off a courtyard with a neighbour whose television we could transcribe. She leads. He has been fine with it since a conversation on a walk that changed things.
We are not desperate, only realistic. If we had been here ten years we would be picky. As it is, the entire population of people we actually know who would understand what we mean by a limit is nobody at all.
What we would want first is to talk. Coffee somewhere, or a walk, because walking is free. We are proposing nothing beyond that, and we would decide together, slowly, with him having as much say as her, which people assume is not the case.
We would also be perfectly happy with a purely social friendship. Genuinely. Two people to have dinner with who do not require us to be a slightly different couple than we are would be worth crossing the city for. Not for anybody expecting somewhere impressive. It is a rented flat with a broken window handle and a landlord who does not answer, and one of us is always about to fix something.