I have one free hour a day and it starts at five
Posted as hour_before_six
- Looking for
- structure built around early mornings and nothing that needs an evening
- Experience
- Two years of it with one person online, who then moved abroad.
- Around
- the Black Country, Birmingham
My free hour is between five and six in the morning. Everybody in the house is asleep, the shift does not start until seven, and that hour is the only part of the day that belongs to me. I would like to hand it over to somebody.
Forty one, submissive, warehouse work out in the Black Country, one child at home and no partner. Evenings are not available and they are not going to become available, so if an evening is what you need, we are done and neither of us has wasted a fortnight finding out.
What worked before was a person who set the task the night before, expected it finished by six, and wanted to hear about it. Two years of that with somebody who then moved abroad, and I have missed it since a great deal more than I expected to.
I am good at routine and hopeless at deciding what the routine should be. Left to myself I will do nothing for four months and then try to change everything in a week, which is exactly what happened last autumn.
Not looking for anything that requires me to be somewhere at eight in the evening. Not looking for anybody who treats a man with a child at home as a scheduling problem to be worked around. And not looking to explain, again, that five in the morning is not a joke or a test of anybody's commitment. It is just when I am awake.