We will never host, not once, and here is the completely ordinary reason
Posted as his_mother_lives_with_us
- Looking for
- someone who can host, or a solution neither of us has thought of yet
- Experience
- Married nineteen years, this in it for eleven.
- Around
- Oak Cliff, Dallas
His mother moved in with us two years ago. She is staying, she should be staying, and we would make the same decision tomorrow. She is good company and she is in the front room and she misses nothing.
Forty eight and forty nine, Oak Cliff, married nineteen years, with this between us for eleven of them. It has been the best part of a long marriage and for two years it has had nowhere to happen. So this is a post about logistics more than anything else. We cannot host. We will not be hosting. Anybody we meet needs somewhere of their own, and we understand that puts the entire practical burden on them and we do not take that lightly.
What we want is one person, a submissive man, for a long arrangement with me leading and my husband present and involved. We are not in a rush and we would want months of knowing somebody first. Both previous arrangements began that way.
We are also perfectly happy to spend the first while simply being friends with somebody, because we are aware that we are asking for something inconvenient and that nobody should agree to it on the strength of two messages.
Not looking for anybody who suggests we could be careful and quiet in our own house. We have tried. It is not the noise, it is that she gets up at five. Not looking for someone who wants a weekly commitment we cannot yet promise.