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Couples the east side, Dallas

We could not agree on a version of this so we each wrote half

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Looking for
a submissive for both of us, with two quite different sets of expectations
Experience
Together six years, both experienced separately before that.
Around
the east side, Dallas

Her paragraph. We are thirty seven and forty one, east side, together six years, both dominant, which took us a year to work out how to hold. What I want is protocol and precision. Standards that are held when I am not in the room, reports that are accurate, and somebody who finds being measured against something satisfying rather than frightening. I am the stricter one and he will tell you the same.

His paragraph. I am the warmer half of this and I am not going to pretend otherwise. What I enjoy is service and looking after somebody properly, and I am the one who will notice you have not eaten. Where she wants a standard met, I mostly want a person to be all right. Between us I think it balances, but you should know that you are getting two quite different people rather than one household with a single voice.

Both of us. What we are offering is one submissive, a defined role, two evenings most weeks and a weekend day, for a long time rather than a season. Anything concerning all three of us gets discussed with all three present, and a complaint about one of us never has to go through the other. That rule exists because we have seen the alternative.

We are careful for the usual local reasons: both of us are employed somewhere that would make it complicated.

Not looking for a person who wants to play us against each other. Not looking for anybody hoping this becomes a romance between three people. Not looking for someone who only writes to one of us, which we notice immediately.

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