Not married, not living together, and we still come as a pair
Posted as one_lease_two_secrets
- Looking for
- a submissive comfortable with two people who keep separate homes
- Experience
- Together five years, deliberately living apart, one previous arrangement.
- Around
- the mid-cities, Dallas
Five years in and we keep two addresses about twenty minutes apart, and every single person who finds that out assumes it is a stage we are passing through. It is not. It is the whole design, it was decided on purpose, and it is the reason we are still together.
Forty three and forty six, mid-cities, both dominant, both previously married to people who wanted the other model. We are not doing that again.
What it means for anybody who joins us is genuinely practical rather than philosophical. There are two houses, so there are two sets of rules and two very different atmospheres. She is exacting and quiet. I am louder and considerably less organised. We do not pretend to be one unit and we would not ask you to treat us as one.
What we want is one submissive for a long arrangement across both households. Some evenings with her, some with me, and one a fortnight with all three. That is how the last one worked, for two years, and the person involved said the variety was the best part of it. We are both careful about work. Neither of us can be visible.
Not looking for somebody who wants a single household to belong to, which is a completely reasonable want and simply not what this is. Not looking for anyone who is going to prefer one of us and let it show. Not looking for a person who needs us to eventually move in together, which we are asked about roughly every second conversation.