My rota has never once given me a Saturday and it never will
Posted as never_a_saturday
- Looking for
- a submissive whose week is as strange as mine
- Experience
- Sixteen years, three dynamics, two of them ended over the rota.
- Around
- the harbour side, Hamburg
Twelve hours on, twenty four off, rolling, forever. My free days walk slowly through the week and land on a Saturday roughly once every two months. Two dynamics have died of it and I have stopped calling that bad luck.
Forty seven, dominant, harbour work, sixteen years in this. I am not changing job and I am not going to pretend the rota is a phase. What I can offer instead is something most people cannot: enormous amounts of weekday time, whole afternoons that belong to nobody, and a city that is empty at the hours I am in it.
So realistically I am looking for a shift worker, somebody retired, somebody self employed, or a person whose work is genuinely flexible rather than theoretically flexible. I have met three people who described their hours as flexible and meant they could occasionally take a long lunch.
What I want is a long dynamic with structure in it. Standing rules that operate whether or not we are in the same room, tasks, reporting, and a submissive content with something deep rather than frequent. I sleep badly and I write at strange hours. I do not expect a reply at four in the morning and I will not read anything into a slow one.
Not looking for somebody who will suggest I ask for the weekend off. Not looking for anything that has to be weekly. Not looking to be told the rota sounds romantic, which a person said to me once, in earnest.