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Dominants Eimsbüttel, Hamburg

Sixty three, still working, and not remotely finished with any of this

Posted as north_facing_window

Looking for
a submissive near my own age for something long and quiet
Experience
Twenty nine years, four dynamics, the longest of them sixteen.
Around
Eimsbüttel, Hamburg

There is an assumption on boards like this that a woman of my age is either a fiction or a widow after some company. I am neither. I still work four days a week, I have led people in this for twenty nine years, and I have no intention whatsoever of stopping.

Sixty three, Eimsbüttel, in a flat with a north facing window and the light I prefer. Four dynamics. The longest ran sixteen years and ended in a way that was sad and correct, and I am still fond of him.

What I want is a submissive man somewhere near my own age. Not because younger men are unwelcome in principle, but because I have tried twice and both times spent a great deal of energy explaining a world I grew up inside. I would like somebody who remembers the same decades.

My style is quiet and domestic. Rules, service, a standing evening, correction that is verbal and precise. Very little impact and no interest in acquiring an interest. I write properly, in full sentences, and I answer within a day. I expect the same and I am unembarrassed about expecting it.

Not looking for a man who wants to be looked after. Not looking for anyone who uses a title before we have met, which tells me most of what I need to know. And not looking for a project. At sixty three I would like something that begins already working.

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