She leads, I write the posts, and she finds all this absurd
Posted as the_typing_half
- Looking for
- a submissive man for her, for something long and domestic
- Experience
- Together twelve years, nine of them with her in charge.
- Around
- Eimsbüttel, Hamburg
I am the husband. I do the typing because she regards writing about herself as a form of self harm, and because after twelve years I can do a passable impression of her when required. She has read this and removed two sentences from it.
We are thirty three and thirty five, Eimsbüttel, together twelve years. She has led our marriage for nine of them and I am submissive to her, and none of that is under review.
What we are looking for is a second submissive man, for her, for something long and domestic. Not a third in the marriage. A separate arrangement that happens in our house, which I know about in full and am not part of.
I want to be honest about my position, because I think it is the thing anybody would want to know. I am not doing this reluctantly and I am not doing it to keep her happy. I like her having more than I can give her. I also expect I will find parts of it harder than I currently imagine, and we have talked about what happens then, and the answer is that we stop and talk rather than that I quietly endure it.
She is strict, extremely organised, and a great deal funnier than this post makes her sound. Not looking for anybody who wants a relationship with a couple. Not looking for someone who will treat me as an obstacle to be managed. Not looking for anything that begins before all three of us have met more than once.