Rope only, nothing sexual, and I would like a regular practice partner
Posted as knots_on_thursdays
- Looking for
- a rope bottom who wants to train rather than to date
- Experience
- Seven years tying, two of them teaching friends badly.
- Around
- the Heights, Houston
This is a narrow ask so I will keep it precise.
I tie. It is the only part of this I care about and it has been that way since I started. What I want is a practice partner in Houston: somebody who wants to be tied regularly, who is interested in the technical side, and who will give me honest feedback about what is happening in their hands and shoulders rather than being polite about it. Nothing sexual. I would rather say that clearly than imply it. I am not offering a relationship and I am not looking for one, and I have found that being blunt about it early saves an awkward conversation in week three.
Thirty six, seven years tying, mostly floor work, some suspension, and deliberately slow about the latter. Nerve safety is not a formality to me. I hurt somebody once, years ago, through carelessness, and it changed how I do everything since. What I would like is a weekly or fortnightly session, a couple of hours, somewhere private, working through specific things rather than improvising. Photographs only if you want them and only ever of hands or rope.
I would ask you to speak to people who have been tied by me before we begin, and I would put you in touch rather than wait to be asked. Experienced or a complete beginner, both fine. Patience is the only real requirement.