I made a spreadsheet about this and I am not sorry
Posted as spreadsheet_of_limits
- Looking for
- someone who will fill in the second column honestly
- Experience
- Six years, all of it topping, all of it thoroughly documented.
- Around
- the west side, Houston
There is a spreadsheet. Three tabs. Conditional formatting. My last partner found this either the best or the worst thing about me depending on the week, and reader, we did not survive.
I am thirty five and I do process engineering in Houston, which explains the spreadsheet and possibly everything else about me. I top. I have only ever topped. I am good at planning, decent at reading people, and genuinely bad at spontaneity, a trait people find charming for about a month. What I want is somebody who likes being handled by a person who has thought it through. If the idea of sitting down together and going through a long list of things, one at a time, with categories, sounds appealing rather than clinical, we are going to get on. Half the pleasure of this for me is the part before anything happens.
Not looking for someone who wants to be surprised. I will not surprise you. I will tell you exactly what is going to happen and then it will happen, and if that ruins it for you then we have found out cheaply.
Also not looking for anyone who says the word hobby in a particular tone. My friends know about this. My family does not and never will, which is a Houston thing as much as a family thing.
Bring questions. I have answers and I have colour coded them, and I will send you the blank version before I send you anything else.