Out on the far west side, and a round trip is ninety miles of freeway
Posted as ninety_miles_of_nothing
- Looking for
- a submissive who understands the geography before she agrees to it
- Experience
- Seventeen years, two long dynamics, both across distance.
- Around
- the far west side, Houston
Let us start with the map, because in this city the map is what ends most of these conversations.
I live out past the far west edge of Houston. Anything inside the loop is ninety minutes from me at the wrong hour and forty at the right one, and the wrong hour is most of them. If you are down toward Clear Lake, that is ninety miles of freeway there and back and half a day gone, and I am not going to pretend that is a detail we can sort out later on. Forty five, dominant, seventeen years in. Both of my long arrangements ran across distance, one of them for three years, and I know how to make one work. It takes writing, planning, and a person who does not need to be in the same room to feel held. Some people can do that and most cannot, and there is nothing wrong with being in the second group.
What I can do is drive. I do it for work anyway and another few hours does not frighten me. What I cannot do is drop everything on a Tuesday because you have had a bad day. I want somebody serious. Long term, structured, honest about what she needs and what she has. I have no interest in a pen pal and no interest in anything that stays online forever. The sky out here is worth the drive on its own. That is my entire pitch for the geography and it is more true than it sounds.