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Submissives Montrose, Houston

Houston, fifty seven, and what I want is protocol rather than pain

Posted as starched_collar

Looking for
a woman who enjoys being served properly and says what she wants
Experience
Twenty three years, mostly service, very little of anything heavy.
Around
Montrose, Houston

I spend my working life making decisions and being deferred to, and I have understood for a long time that the appeal of this, for me, is precisely the opposite of that.

What I am drawn to is formality. Standing when you come into a room. Being corrected on small things and getting them right the next time. Doing the tedious parts of somebody's week properly and without being thanked. That is most of it, honestly. I am not after pain, I do not want to be humiliated in front of anybody, and I have no interest in anything that leaves a mark.

Fifty seven. Houston. Divorced a long time ago, adult children who live elsewhere, a house that is too big and much too tidy. I want to be very clear about one thing, because it is the assumption my age and my job attract. This is not a transaction. I am not looking to buy anything, I will not be sending money to anybody, and whoever leads with that will not get a second reply from me. What I have is time, attention, and a great deal of practice at doing what I am told.

I would like this to be ongoing rather than occasional. Weekly if it can be. I am reliable to the point of being dull about it, which is the only real selling point I have.

If you have wanted this and never found anybody who takes it seriously, I take it seriously.

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