Twenty seven, broke, no car, and being upfront about all three
Posted as switch_with_a_caveat
- Looking for
- somebody patient about logistics and unbothered by a student budget
- Experience
- Two years, mostly bottoming, one summer of topping a friend.
- Around
- Midtown, Houston
Realistic disclosure at the top. I am a graduate student in Houston, I do not have a car, and my budget is a joke. If any of that is a problem, and it fairly might be, no hard feelings at all.
Twenty seven. Switch, though the split is uneven. I have mostly been on the receiving end, and I topped one person, a friend, for about four months, and discovered that I liked it much more than I expected and was terrible at it to begin with. I would like to get better at both halves rather than pick one and settle. What the no car thing means practically is that I can reach a decent chunk of the city but not quickly and not late. I am not going to ask you to fetch me. I will plan around it and I will be on time, and if the logistics genuinely do not work I will say so rather than cancel on the day.
What I am hoping for is somebody with more experience than me who does not find the age gap strange in either direction, and who is willing to explain things. I ask a lot of questions. Some people find that endearing and some find it exhausting, and I have never once been able to predict which. Not looking for anything that costs money to do. Not looking for anyone who wants to sponsor a student, which is a message I get and do not want. There is no arrangement here involving money in either direction and there never will be.
What I can offer is time, which I have in embarrassing quantities until the autumn, and a genuine willingness to be told when I have got something wrong.
Free most evenings and all summer.