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Dominants Midtown, Houston

Houston, two jobs, and Wednesday is all I have got

Posted as two_jobs_one_evening

Looking for
a submissive who can meet on a weeknight and not resent it
Experience
Four years topping, one arrangement that ran two years.
Around
Midtown, Houston

Wednesday. That is the post, really. Everything after this is detail.

I work a full time job and a second one at weekends, which is how I am paying off something I would rather not describe in a personals advert. That leaves Wednesday evenings and roughly one Sunday a month. It has been like this for two years and it will be like this for at least one more. Twenty nine, Houston, dominant, four years in. My last arrangement lasted two years and ended when he wanted more time than I had, which was fair of him and still stung for a while.

What I want is somebody who hears the schedule and thinks it sounds workable, rather than somebody who thinks they will eventually change it. I am not going to change it. When I have my time back I will be delighted, and until then I would rather have one good evening a week than nothing at all. Between Wednesdays I am a decent correspondent. Tasks, checking in, all the things that do not require me to be physically anywhere. I am better at the remote half than most people, because I have had to be.

Not interested in anyone who needs constant reassurance, because I will be at work and I will not see the message for six hours.

I am worth a Wednesday. I promise you that much.

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