Houston, polyamorous, and honest about where you would actually sit
Posted as we_both_read_this
- Looking for
- somebody who wants a real relationship inside an existing one
- Experience
- Together six years, open for four, four other partners between us.
- Around
- the Midtown edge, Houston
We are a couple and we are not a unit that dates as one person, so this post is about both of us and about either of us.
Together six years, open for four, both twenty nine. She has a boyfriend of two years who is lovely and around a lot. He has been seeing somebody casually since the spring. We live together, we are each other's primary in the practical sense, and we are not going to pretend otherwise, because the version of this where a couple insists everything is equal is usually a story that falls apart the first time somebody has to choose.
So the honest offer is a real relationship with one of us, with a ceiling on some things and none at all on others. You would meet the rest of it. You would not be hidden and you would not be managed. The kink part: she tops, he switches, and both of us are far more interested in ongoing dynamics than in one off scenes.
What we do not want is someone looking for a couple to experience. If your interest is in the arrangement rather than in a person, it will not go well, and that has happened to us twice now. Houston, out on the Midtown edge, two bikes and a very old cat.
Write to whichever of us you are actually interested in. Both of us read the board anyway, so it is not a secret either way.