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Couples the Clear Lake side, Houston

Houston couple who will do the driving, within reason

Posted as we_drive_to_you

Looking for
a dominant woman for an ongoing arrangement with both of us
Experience
Together nine years, in this together for three.
Around
the Clear Lake side, Houston

We have noticed that most posts expect somebody else to travel, so here is one that does not. We will drive. Cross town at six in the evening is nothing to us, the far side of the beltway is a Saturday, and we have done the ninety minute version twice and would do it again for something ongoing.

Both of us are in our thirties, together nine years and married for two of them. We have been doing this together for three years, which started with her and got me involved rather than the other way round. We are both submissive, and that is the thing that makes finding anybody hard, because most of the interest we get is from other couples looking for something we are not offering.

What we are looking for is a dominant woman who would take on both of us. Not necessarily at the same time and not necessarily in the same way. She is more service oriented and I am more interested in discipline, and we have already accepted that those two might not come from the same person. Timescale: ongoing. We are not looking for a weekend. We had one arrangement that lasted eight months and it ended when she moved, and we have been slow about replacing it because we would rather wait than settle.

We are open about this with three friends and nobody else at all.

Both of us read everything that comes in. Neither of us will reply separately, so please do not ask.

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