Looking for a friend for my husband, not a partner for either of us
Posted as a_friend_for_him
- Looking for
- another submissive man for him to talk to, and nothing more than that
- Experience
- Together seventeen years, structured for ten, no third ever.
- Around
- south Liverpool, Liverpool
This is not the usual couple post and I will explain quickly so nobody wastes an evening. We are not looking for a third. We are not opening anything. What my husband does not have, and has never had, is a single other person in his life who understands what he actually is.
Forty three and forty one, south Liverpool, together seventeen years. I lead. He does not. It has been formal between us for ten years and it works, and the one thing missing is that he carries all of it alone.
I have friends I can talk to. He has nobody. He has never met another submissive man in his life and I have watched him read forums at midnight looking for somebody who sounds like him.
So: we are looking for a submissive man, any age, who wants a friend. A pint, a walk, a long conversation, whatever friendship looks like for two men who do not find it easy. Nothing physical, nothing arranged, and not answerable to me in any way. I would meet you once, early, because I am protective and I am not pretending otherwise, and after that it is his business and I will hear about as much of it as he wants to tell me. He is quiet, he is very funny once he has decided he likes you, and he has never in his life had this conversation with another man.
Not looking for anybody hoping this is a coded advert for something else. Not looking for a person who wants to serve me, since that is not on offer. Not looking for anyone who would find a friendship with one rule attached strange, and the rule is that it is his and not mine.