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Couples Sefton, Liverpool

Thirty years of this at home and we have never met a soul

Posted as thirty_years_no_scene

Looking for
one other couple, to prove to ourselves that other people exist
Experience
Married thirty two years, this between us for most of them.
Around
Sefton, Liverpool

We got married in the early nineties and this has been part of it almost from the start, working it out between ourselves, with no books, no internet and certainly nobody to ask. For a long time we assumed we had invented something. Then the internet arrived and told us we had not, which was a peculiar afternoon.

Fifty five and fifty three, Sefton, retired and semi retired. He leads, I do not, and we have never in thirty years spoken to another couple about any of it.

That is what we would like. One other couple, ideally around our age or near enough, for a meal and a proper conversation. We are curious about how other people have done it. We have made our own rules for three decades and we would quite like to find out how odd they are.

Nothing physical is being offered here and nothing is going to be. We are closed and we have always been closed. We are simply short of people who would not be shocked.

Not looking for a third. Not looking for anyone under about forty five, purely because we would like to talk to people who remember doing this before it was searchable. Not looking to be taught anything, though we would happily be corrected.

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