A couple who live an hour apart, and intend to stay that way
Posted as an_hour_apart
- Looking for
- one person who understands a relationship with two front doors
- Experience
- Together six years, never lived together, both experienced before that.
- Around
- the city centre, Liverpool
We have been together six years and we have never lived in the same house. He is in the city, I am the better part of an hour away, and everybody who hears this assumes it is a stage we are going through. It is not. It is the arrangement that has made this the happiest either of us has been, and neither of us is moving.
Thirty nine and forty. He leads, I follow, and we see each other three or four nights a week and spend the rest of the time entirely on our own.
What we are looking for is one submissive, ongoing, who can work with the shape of that. Some weeks it will be at his and some at mine. There is no shared household to be part of and no single place where all three of us live, and for the right person that is freedom rather than a complication.
We have both done this a long time and separately before we met. We move slowly, we meet in public first, and we write things down.
Not looking for somebody who wants a family unit, because we are not one. Not looking for anyone who will find the travel a problem, since we already do plenty of it. Not looking for a person who wants to be the reason we finally move in together.