Word travels in this city, so we are careful about who we tell
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- Looking for
- one submissive for a long arrangement, vetted slowly
- Experience
- Together nineteen years, structured for twelve, two previous arrangements.
- Around
- Wirral, Liverpool
Both of us grew up here and between us we know an alarming number of people. That is lovely in most respects and it is the single most complicated thing about doing any of this locally, because there is no such thing as an anonymous conversation when your cousin drinks with everybody.
Forty six and forty four, Wirral, together nineteen years, with a structure in our marriage for twelve of them. I lead, he does not, and he is reading this over my shoulder as usual.
We are looking for one submissive woman for something long and domestic. A defined role, standing duties, regular evenings, and an agreement we all revisit. We have done it twice, one for three years and one for five, and we are still on good terms with both.
Because of the above we go slowly and we are careful. Several conversations first, a public meeting with all three of us, then another one a few weeks later. We will ask direct questions and we expect to be asked them. One of those questions will be who else in this city you have been involved with, which sounds nosy and is not: it is how you avoid an evening where three people discover a connection nobody wanted. We are both in our forties, we both work full time, and what we can realistically offer is two evenings a week and a fair bit of the weekend.
Not looking for anybody who will find the pace insulting, though we understand why it might. Not looking for someone who wants only one of us, which happened once and was awkward for everybody. Not looking for a person who is in the middle of something difficult, because we are not equipped to be anybody's shelter.