Every day in some form, and in the same room about once a month
Posted as daily_rarely_in_person
- Looking for
- a dominant who understands that presence is not the same as proximity
- Experience
- Twelve years, three dynamics, the best of them mostly at a distance.
- Around
- Sefton, Liverpool
The best thing I have had lasted three years and we were in the same room perhaps thirty times in total. Everything else was daily: instructions in the morning, a report at night, rules about how my house looked and how I spent my Sundays, and a woman who noticed within a day if something was off.
Forty eight, Sefton, submissive, twelve years in. I work from home, I live alone, and my week has an enormous amount of empty space in it.
I mention that last part because it explains why the shape suits me. When somebody is present in your day every single day, once a month in person is a treat rather than a ration. When they are absent all week and then turn up on a Saturday, it is the opposite.
So I am after somebody who works this way by preference rather than by compromise. Daily structure, honest reporting, and time together when it can be arranged properly rather than squeezed in. I am organised, I keep records, and I have never once missed a check in.
Not looking for anybody who wants to see me twice a week, because I would run out of things to be. Not looking for something that lives entirely in the phone with no meeting at all, which I have done and which becomes unreal after a while. Not looking to be anybody's low effort option.