Fifty two, and local means local, not an hour down the motorway
Posted as local_means_local
- Looking for
- a submissive within about half an hour of me, and I mean it
- Experience
- Twenty years, four dynamics, the last one lost to a commute.
- Around
- Sefton, Liverpool
The last one lived near Leeds. We managed fourteen months and it died the way all of them die, which is not in an argument but in a slow accumulation of Tuesdays where neither of us could face the drive. I am not doing it again, so the requirement goes at the top.
Fifty two, Sefton, dominant woman, twenty years in. Half an hour from me, more or less. The north of the city, the coast, out towards Ormskirk. I will happily come to you. What I will not do is build something that depends on a motorway.
What I want is a dynamic that fits inside an ordinary week. Two evenings, sometimes three. Rules in between. Somebody I might see for forty minutes on a Wednesday because that is all either of us has, and for that to be normal rather than an occasion.
I am not intense. I have a dog, a job and a mother nearby who visits without warning, and this fits around all of that or it does not fit.
Not looking for anyone who will tell me they do not mind the drive, because they all say that in March. Not looking for anything long distance, at all, in any form. Not looking for somebody whose main appeal is that they are willing to travel, which is not a personality.