Three weeks offshore, three weeks home, and no phone signal in between
Posted as three_weeks_offshore
- Looking for
- a submissive who can hold a structure across a long silence
- Experience
- Ten years, two dynamics, one of which survived this rota well.
- Around
- Wirral, Liverpool
Three weeks away, three weeks home, and while I am away the contact is patchy and sometimes there is none at all for a day or two. There is no version of this where that changes, so it goes in the first line rather than the tenth. Thirty eight, Wirral, dominant, ten years in and offshore for eight of them.
The good half is that when I am home, I am completely home. No commute, no early alarm, three weeks of actual availability. The dynamic that worked ran on that rhythm for two years and she used to say the away weeks were the ones that made the rest of it matter, because everything she did in them was hers to keep or to break.
What that needs is somebody who can hold a structure without being watched. Tasks that carry on. A written report I read whenever I next surface. Rules that do not become optional on day eleven when nobody has said anything.
I am steady, I plan a long way ahead, and I will always tell you when I am going and when I will be back.
Not looking for someone who needs a good morning message every day, and there is nothing wrong with needing that, it just cannot be me. Not looking for anything occasional. Not looking for a person who will treat three weeks of silence as three weeks of evidence.