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Dominants south Liverpool, Liverpool

My grown up son lives with me, so nothing happens at my house

Posted as my_son_lives_here

Looking for
a submissive who can host, or who is fine with neither of us doing
Experience
Eight years, two dynamics, both worked around the same problem.
Around
south Liverpool, Liverpool

My son is in his twenties, he lives with me while he saves for a deposit, and he is going to be here for another two years at least. That means my house is not available and it is not going to become available, and I have watched two promising conversations founder on somebody assuming that would change. Thirty six, south Liverpool, dominant woman, eight years in.

I want to be clear that this is not a complaint. I like having him about. It does mean that anything with me has to be built out of your place, or out of the sort of thing that does not need a room at all, which is honestly most of what I want anyway.

What I am after is one submissive man, ongoing, for structure rather than sessions. Daily contact, rules that live in the ordinary week, a proper conversation twice a week, and time together when we can arrange it rather than when we would like it.

I am organised, I am direct, and I will tell you when something is not working rather than going quiet, which I gather is rare enough to be worth advertising.

Not looking for anybody who needs a lot of in person time to feel that this is real. Not looking for someone who will suggest hotels every week, because that is not a life. Not looking to meet anybody's family and nobody is meeting mine.

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