Sixty, and I would like to talk for months before we meet
Posted as months_of_talking
- Looking for
- a submissive who enjoys a long correspondence more than a quick meeting
- Experience
- Thirty two years, three long dynamics, the last one ended in twenty three.
- Around
- Sefton, Liverpool
I am going to be a disappointment to anybody in a hurry. What I want first is to write to somebody for a long time. Months, probably. Not because I am hiding anything, but because at sixty I have finally accepted that I only ever get on properly with people I have talked to at length, and I have stopped pretending I am capable of doing this the quick way.
Sefton, dominant man, thirty two years in, on my own since twenty twenty three when my last dynamic ended for reasons of geography and a job neither of us could turn down.
What I offer after all that talking is formality and consistency. Address, standards, expectations that do not shift with my mood, and the sort of arrangement that gets stronger over years rather than more exciting over weeks.
I am not remotely stern in ordinary life. I garden, I read, I am told I am funny, and I have never once shouted at anybody inside a dynamic or outside one.
Not looking for photographs at any stage before we have met, and I will not be sending any either. Not looking for anybody who wants to know within a week whether this is going somewhere. Not looking to be anybody's project or anybody's second choice while they see how something else goes.