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Dominants the city centre, Liverpool

Small board, so I am going to be direct and you should be too

Posted as no_time_to_be_coy

Looking for
one submissive man for a long dynamic, starting with a real conversation
Experience
Fourteen years, three dynamics, the last of them five years.
Around
the city centre, Liverpool

There are not enough of us in this city to spend six weeks being mysterious at each other. So here is everything, and if it does not suit you, say so and we will both get our evening back.

Forty one, dominant woman, city centre, fourteen years in. I want one submissive man, ongoing, for something that runs in years. Structure, protocol, standards I set and hold, and a check in every day that takes four minutes and matters more than any evening we spend together.

What I am not is theatrical. I have no interest in an elaborate scene and I am not going to dress up for anyone. Most of what I do is quiet, verbal, and about consistency, and people are usually surprised by how domestic it looks from outside. My last one ran five years on almost nothing but a routine, a set of standards and a great deal of talking, and it ended because he was offered something in Dublin that he would have been mad to refuse.

What I want from you in a first message: your age, roughly where you are, what your week actually looks like, and one honest thing about what you are hoping for. That is it. If you send me three lines of flattery I will not answer, and it is nothing personal, it is that I have had four hundred of them.

Not looking for anything involving money in either direction. Not looking to be called anything before we have met. Not looking for a man who wants to be told what he wants, because I am not doing that work for you.

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