Twenty seven and dominant, which apparently requires an explanation
Posted as younger_than_inbox
- Looking for
- a submissive who is not going to make my age the whole conversation
- Experience
- Six years, two dynamics, one of them three years and ongoing until March.
- Around
- the Baltic Triangle, Liverpool
I get two kinds of message. One is from men twice my age explaining what dominance really means, usually within four lines. The other is from people who think a man my age must be all mouth and no plan. I understand both reactions and I am tired of answering them.
Twenty seven, Baltic Triangle, dominant, six years in. My last dynamic ran three years and ended in March because she took a job in Dublin, and we are still friends, and she would give me a reference if that were a thing people did.
What I actually do is not dramatic. Structure, expectations, a lot of conversation, and a standing arrangement that survives ordinary life. I plan carefully and I do not disappear.
I would honestly rather be with somebody older than me. Most of my experience has been and it suits me, and I have no interest in pretending to an authority I have not got in the rest of my life. I know what I am doing in this. I do not know what I am doing about mortgages.
Not looking for anybody who wants to explain my own orientation to me. Not looking for someone whose interest is that I am young, which is a different thing entirely from not minding. Not looking for anything involving money, which I am asked about with depressing regularity.