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Dominants south Liverpool, Liverpool

I work in social care, so I cannot be visible anywhere at all

Posted as nobody_at_work_knows

Looking for
a submissive who understands discretion as a working condition
Experience
Twelve years, two dynamics, both entirely private.
Around
south Liverpool, Liverpool

The families I work with can find anything. That is not paranoia, it is a thing that has happened to two colleagues of mine, and it means my rules about photographs and names are not preferences, they are the conditions under which I can do this at all.

Forty seven, south Liverpool, dominant woman, twelve years in. No pictures, ever, of anything. Nothing written down with my name near it. I will meet you in person early because face to face is safer than a trail of messages, and I would rather build trust that way.

I know that asks a lot and I know how it can look. I am not married, I am not hiding a household, and there is nobody who would be hurt by any of this. It is simply that my job and my private life cannot be allowed to touch.

What I want is one submissive, ongoing, for structure and service. I am warm in person and quite formal about arrangements, which apparently reads as a contradiction until you have met me.

Not looking for anyone who wants to be seen out with me locally. Not looking for a person who will keep testing the boundaries of the discretion to see how serious I am about it. Not looking to explain myself about this repeatedly, because I can be convincing about it exactly once.

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