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Switches south Liverpool, Liverpool

Twenty six, no car, no money, and a lot of free afternoons

Posted as no_car_no_money

Looking for
somebody who does not think an evening has to cost anything
Experience
Three years, mostly with one person, ended when they graduated.
Around
south Liverpool, Liverpool

Everything I am going to suggest is free or nearly free. A walk. A park. My flat, which is small and cold but does have a kettle. I am not being difficult, I am on a wage that goes entirely on rent, and I would rather put that in the first paragraph than keep inventing reasons why I cannot come to whatever has been suggested this time.

Twenty six, south Liverpool, switch, three years in, most of it with one person who has since moved home to Leeds.

I do not drive and I am not going to be able to get to the Wirral and back after nine at night, so realistically this works with somebody in the south of the city or in the centre.

What I want is a proper thing rather than a series of evenings. I lean towards leading, slightly, and I like being led by somebody who is good at it, and I have no interest in settling that permanently. Mostly I want somebody I talk to every day. I have a lot of time. That is the one thing I have got plenty of, and it turns out to be worth something to people with proper jobs.

Not looking for anyone who will find my situation charming. Not looking for anything that assumes I can drop everything at short notice, because buses. Not looking for someone who wants to help me out financially, which has been offered twice and is not what any of this is.

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