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Switches Sefton, Liverpool

Twenty four, living at home, and that is the whole complication

Posted as still_in_my_old_room

Looking for
somebody with their own place and a lot of patience about logistics
Experience
Two years, one short thing, mostly conversations that went nowhere.
Around
Sefton, Liverpool

I live with my mum and dad in the room I grew up in, because rent is what it is and I am not earning enough to be anywhere else. Everything about doing this is therefore complicated: I cannot host, I cannot be on the phone late, and if I go out on a Tuesday I get asked about it at breakfast.

Twenty four, Sefton, switch, two years in and not much to show for it.

They are lovely and they would probably be fine about it, and I am still not telling them, because there is a difference between fine and it being a thing my mum knows and thinks about while she is making the tea.

What I want is a proper ongoing thing with one person. I lean towards following and I am curious about the other side. Realistically I need somebody who can host, who does not mind that I go quiet at odd hours, and who will not read my logistics as me not being keen. I am on the trains and buses, so anywhere in the city is fine and the Wirral is a stretch on a work night.

Not looking for anybody who wants to meet at the weekend all the time, because weekends are family and I would rather say that now. Not looking for photographs. Not looking to be told I should just tell them, which everyone says and nobody who has met my mother would.

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