Partially sighted, so describe the room before I get there
Posted as tell_me_the_layout
- Looking for
- a dominant who can answer practical questions without fuss
- Experience
- Thirteen years, three dynamics, all since I lost most of my sight.
- Around
- south Liverpool, Liverpool
Before I come anywhere I will want to know the layout. Where the door is, whether there are steps, what the floor is like, where you will be. It takes two minutes to tell me and it is the difference between an evening I can relax into and one where I spend the whole time working out the room.
Fifty one, south Liverpool, submissive man, thirteen years in, and I have had about ten percent of my vision since my thirties.
None of that is a tragedy and I am not after sympathy. It is a set of practical requirements, and I lead with it because the people who could handle a two minute conversation about it have been excellent and the people who could not made it obvious in about four messages.
What I want is a long dynamic with structure in it. I am extremely good at doing what I am told when I trust the person telling me, and trust for me is built out of consistency and clear description rather than anything else. I travel by bus and taxi, I can get anywhere in the city, and the Wirral is a long way for me but not impossible.
Not looking for anybody who will suddenly become careful and start doing everything for me. Not looking for someone whose interest is really curiosity about how blind people manage. Not looking to be somebody's good deed.