Twelve and a half hour shifts, so please do not suggest Thursday
Posted as twelve_and_a_half_hours
- Looking for
- a dominant who can work around a rota nobody would choose
- Experience
- Four years, two dynamics, both ended over my hours.
- Around
- south Liverpool, Liverpool
My shifts are twelve and a half hours and they come in blocks, and when I finish a run of three I am not good company for a day afterwards. That is the reality, it is not going to improve, and it has ended both of the dynamics I have had.
Thirty nine, south Liverpool, submissive man, four years in, and I work in a hospital doing a job I still like despite everything.
What I have learned is that frequency is not the problem. Predictability is. I know my rota six weeks ahead and I can tell you exactly which evenings I am yours. What I cannot do is respond well to a message at eight in the morning suggesting something that night.
So I am after somebody organised. Rules I keep through a run of shifts, a proper conversation on the days I am off, and a dominant who does not read a slow reply as a lack of interest when I have been on my feet since seven. I would rather this were somebody in the south of the city or the centre, purely because after a shift I will genuinely not get in a car and drive over the water.
Not looking for spontaneity. Not looking for anyone who needs daily attention at a fixed hour. Not looking to be told that I could make more time if I really wanted to, which is what the last person said and it was the last thing she said.