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Couples the city centre, Liverpool

We have driven to Manchester for four years and we would like to stop

Posted as tired_of_the_motorway

Looking for
one submissive who is actually in this city
Experience
Together eight years, in this for six, two previous arrangements both away.
Around
the city centre, Liverpool

Both of the arrangements we have had were with people who lived an hour away. Both were good. Both eventually collapsed under the sheer weight of the driving, because an evening becomes a five hour commitment and after a while you stop suggesting it on a weeknight.

Thirty five and thirty three, city centre, together eight years, six of them with this in our marriage. She leads, I do not, and I am typing because my spelling is better.

So this is a deliberate attempt to find somebody here. We would rather wait six months for somebody local than start another thing that needs a tank of petrol every Tuesday.

What we are after is one submissive, of any gender, for something ongoing and defined. Regular evenings, standing arrangements between them, and an agreement we all revisit. We are slow and we meet in public first, all three of us. We are both in our thirties, we both work ordinary hours, and we can offer two evenings a week and one weekend afternoon without anybody having to rearrange their life.

Not looking for anybody who is only free at weekends, because weekends are family. Not looking for someone who wants only one of us. Not looking to be told an hour is nothing, because we have done four years of it and we know precisely what it is.

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