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Dominants the commuter belt, London

Domme in the commuter belt, and please do not call me Mistress yet

Posted as kettle_on

Looking for
a service submissive who is around for the boring parts
Experience
Eleven years, two long service arrangements.
Around
the commuter belt, London

Titles are earned in both directions and I have not earned yours yet, so start with hello.

Forty four, one teenager in the house, a job that eats Wednesdays, and a home in the commuter belt that is forty minutes out and always further than people expect. That geography ended both of my last two arrangements, so it goes in the first paragraph rather than the fifth.

I am after service, and that is the whole of it. Somebody whose week gets shaped by what I need doing, who takes real pleasure in being useful, and who does not need every task charged with something. Half of it is genuinely dull. The garden, the paperwork, the car, the endless business of a house. If the dull half does not appeal then we want different things.

I am warm, I laugh a lot, and I am entirely unmoved by flattery. More men have told me I am a goddess than have turned up twice. Nothing in this involves money in either direction. I am not for hire and I am not hiring, and if that needs explaining then we are already finished.

Not looking for anyone who wants to live in. Not looking to be anyone's mother. Not looking for a set of limits written out as a list of demands. And if you are married and your wife does not know, please do not write to me. I was the reason somebody lied once and I did not enjoy the year that followed.

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