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Couples south east, London

Couple, south east, looking for other couples to actually be friends with

Posted as kitchen_table_two

Looking for
another couple who want dinner and conversation before anything else
Experience
Nine years together, four of them with this out in the open.
Around
south east, London

Both of us wrote a version of this and then argued about which one to post, so we have stitched them together and you can probably see the seam.

We are thirty eight and forty one, together nine years, married for five. He is dominant with me and with nobody else. I am submissive with him and fairly bossy in every other room of the house, which other people find funnier than we do. What we want is other couples. Not a third, not a swap, not an audience. Couples who live like this at home and have nobody to talk to about it, because that is our situation and it is lonely in a very specific way. We would like to have people round, eat something, argue about whether written rules actually work, and then everyone goes home.

If that turns into something else over a long time then fine, but it is not the plan and we will say no plainly if it gets proposed in the first month. Both of us read everything that arrives. Neither of us will write to you separately and we would rather you did not do it to us. That is not suspicion, it is just how we keep this simple.

South east, one free evening most weekends, and one of us is up at six on Mondays, so we are not the people who stay until two in the morning. The main thing: please do not write to us as though only one of us is real.

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