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Submissives the Presqu'île, Lyon

Behind a counter in the centre, and I have served half this board

Posted as you_all_on_saturdays

Looking for
somebody who will not be strange with me if we have already met
Experience
Two years, one short dynamic, a lot of nerve and very little practice.
Around
the Presqu'île, Lyon

I stand behind a counter in the centre six days a week and a great many people walk past me. Statistically I have already sold something to most of the people reading this, and twice I have worked out halfway through a conversation on here that I knew the face.

Twenty five, submissive, two years in, which mostly means two years of reading and one short thing that ended politely. I live in a shared flat, I cannot host, and my day off moves every week.

The reason I mention the shop is that it changes how any of this works for me. I cannot be anonymous. If we meet and it goes nowhere, you may well be back in six weeks buying something, and I would rather we agreed now that neither of us will be strange about that. It sounds like a small thing. In a city this size it is not a small thing.

What I want is somebody experienced who will take their time. Structure, rules, being expected to do things and being corrected when I have not done them. I am young and short on practice and I am not going to pretend to be more than I am.

Not looking for anyone who wants to come and see me at work, which has been suggested once and which I found frightening rather than flattering. Not looking for a person who wants an evening rather than something ongoing. Not looking to be somebody's introduction to all of this in reverse, which is what the last one turned out to want.

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